2009 VS 2019

Reflections on the decade where I went from able-bodied athlete to living with chronic pain

From 🏃🏼‍♀️ to ♿⁣⁠
2019. The year I started treatment at a pain clinic and fixed my body for good!

…. At least that’s how it was supposed to be.⁣⁠
All this reflection that typically happens at the end of the year is bringing up grief for me. Because life didn’t turn out how I expected it to. Chronic pain has drastically changed what I can and cannot do. In 2009, I was a football player, runner and dabbling with some strength training. Today, just going for a brief walk is physically challenging. The way I define my goals and success has had to drastically change.⁣⁠
But. While the pain clinic couldn’t help me fix my body, it did help me relate to it differently. To get closer to a state of acceptance. To work based on where I am in the moment, and not where I wish I was. I found a community. I learned that so many people share my experiences, and I am not wrong for having a body like this.⁣⁠
I no longer feel like my mental health is at the brink of breaking. I experience a normal range of human emotions – frustration, anger, sadness – and also joy, gratitude and happiness. Although it would be great to feel happy all the time, I try to respect that that is not how life works.⁣⁠
And so I treat myself with compassion regardless.

Including when I need to grieve, looking back at this year, this decade.⁣⁠
Life is an ugly, utterly beautiful mess.

Gif that says lots of love, Anne xx

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Originally published on Instagram December 30th 2019.

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